As the past year slides into the rear view mirror, you have a choice. You can either run headlong into the coming year without giving the past year any thought, or you can harvest as much insight from it as you can.
You invested 365 days of your life in the last year. Exploring the year in review and discovering what insights it has to share with you is a great way to maximize your ROI (return on investment).
The following list offers a point of departure for that exploration. Don’t worry about trying to answer all of them (that might take the whole next year!). Just scan through and see which ones jump out at you.
As you go through them, refrain from judging yourself. In any given year, you’re going to have high points and low points. You’re going to shine and you’re going to feel like the light is covered with mud. You’re going to succeed and you’re going to fail That’s just reality.
Instead of judging, approach the questions with curiosity and self-compassion. For both the positive and negative assessments, ask yourself, “What can I learn from this? What insight can I glean from this that will better equip me to live the life I want to live in the coming year?”
And now, the questions!
- What energized me?
- What drained my energy?
- How did I make a positive impact in the world?
- How did I make a negative impact in the world?
- How have I fed love in my life?
- How have I fed fear in my life?
- What positive things about myself in the past year am I not fully acknowledging?
- What am I judging about myself in the past year that I can let go of?
- Who influenced me positively?
- Who influenced me negatively?
- Who helped me?
- What help did I need that I didn’t ask for?
- Who did I help?
- What opportunities to help did I miss?
- Who do I want to thank?
- What negative reactions am I holding on to?
- What am I grateful for?
- What helped me be my highest self?
- What hindered me from being my highest self?
- How did I spend my time? What does that say about what I actually value?
- How did I spend my money? What does that say about what I actually value?
- How did I grow?
- What habits or choices supported my physical well-being?
- What habits or choices worked against my physical well-being?
- What habits or choices supported my emotional well-being?
- What habits or choices worked against my emotional well-being?
- What habits or choices supported my spiritual well-being?
- What habits or choices worked against my spiritual well-being?
- How did I live in sync with my values?
- How did I live out of sync with my values?
- How did I live from the heart?
- How did I walk my spiritual path?
- How did I live my faith?
- What helped me feel spiritually connected?
- What made me feel spiritually disconnected?
- What were my successes?
- What were my failures?
- What was my high point?
- What was my low point?
- How am I different today than I was a year ago?
- How is life different than it was a year ago?
- What challenges did I face?
- Who are the main people in my life? How did each one of them impact me positively?
- What affirming, supportive stories did I tell myself?
- What limiting stories did I tell myself?
- If the last year was a movie, what role did my character play? (the hero? the victim? the villain?) Why do I think that?
- What do I wish I had had more of in the last year?
- What do I wish I had had less of in the last year?
- Where did I experience connection with people?
- Where did I feel disconnected with people?
- How did I reach out to connect with people?
- How did I shut myself off from connection with people?
- Who were my teachers (could be anyone – not just actual teachers)? What did I learn from them?
- Who were my students (again, not necessarily actual students)? What did I teach them?
- What was the central theme for what the last year taught me?
- What habits helped me live the life I want to live?
- What habits hindered me from living the life I want to live?
- How was I my authentic self?
- How was I inauthentic?
- What would I do differently if I could do it over?
- If I could pick one thing (one thing I did, one way I responded, one change I made, etc.) that most reflects who I aspire to be, what would it be?
- How did I plant seeds for a positive future?
- How did I compromise the future I want?
- What am I proud of?
- What am I ashamed of?
- What choices did I make that left me feeling good about myself?
- What choices did I make that left me feeling bad about myself?
- Who do I wish I had spent more time with?
- Who do I wish I had spent less time with?
- What do I wish I had spent more time doing?
- What do I wish I had spent less time doing?
- What community or group of people do I wish I had spent more time with?
- What community or group of people do I wish I had spent less time with?
- Who was uplifting to be around?
- Who was it draining to be around?
- Who helped me believe in myself?
- Who had a negative effect on my belief in myself?
- Who encouraged me?
- Who discouraged me?
- What felt meaningful?
- What really mattered?
- What did I think mattered that didn’t really?
- What felt empty and flat?
- How did I nourish myself?
- How did I ignore my own needs?
- How did I nourish others?
- How did I ignore the needs of others?
- What aspects of my life did I embrace fully?
- What aspects of my life did I resist?
- What change did I embrace fully?
- What change did I resist?
- What did I learn?
- Where did I feel like I had clear direction?
- Where did I feel confused?
- How did I feed positive, healthy relationships in my life?
- How did I get in the way of positive, healthy relationships in my life?
- How did I live with integrity?
- How did I live out of integrity?
- Where did I say no when I wish I would have said yes?
- Where did I say yes when I wish I would have said no?
- What was the single most important thing I learned?
You have invested 365 days of your life in the last year. And those days are jam-packed with potential insight you can use as you move forward. Approach these questions with a sense of curiosity and self-compassion, and harvest the learning!
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